i found an old acquaintance!
actually, it was he who added me on facebook and i just realized it.
he's the son of my nanny who took care of both me and my sister while we were toddlers and he was just a primary 6 kid. his parents were devils from hell (in particular to me), but thats not the main point (il try to talk about my traumatic toddlerhood some other time) i havent seen the family for around 15 years since they moved.
edit: omg thundernews i just found out from my parents that their mum ran away from home while she was taking care of me halfway. and that she was only 20ish. now, that explains everything..
